$db=new mysqli( 'localhost', 'user', 'psw', 'dbname') or dire ( '....' );
$sql="update member inner join `order` on member.id=`order`.member_id
set member.money = member.money - `order`.price
where member.id=$_POST[id]";
$db->query($sql) or die ( $sql . "<br>" . $db->error);
echo $db->affected_rows;